LIFE COACHING

Conflict Coaching | Executive Coaching
Managing Self in Conflict | Couple, Individual and Family Coaching
Life Transitions / Vocational Decisions | Retirement | Coaching Method

Conflict Coaching

Few people relish conflict and most people prefer to avoid conflict. That’s partly because most of us don’t know how to do conflict well. Yet conflict is here to stay. It is inevitable, normal, natural and even necessary at times. Coaching can help you determine when the conflict is necessary and when it’s unnecessary. One of the outcomes of good coaching is to increase your capacity to deal with the ongoing conflict in your life resulting in more satisfying and effective relationships.

We believe that change is more than a one-off encounter. Habits turn into patterns which are resistant to change. A coach comes alongside to enable you to identify the non-productive behavior and choose a more productive response to your circumstance. Ongoing support allows you to develop the necessary skills, intra-personally and interpersonally, to maintain and sustain effective relationships.

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Executive Coaching

For many executives conflict is viewed as the obstacle to success. At Transpectives we will help you discover the value of conflict. We are helping executives differentiate between conflict that is necessary for a successful organization and conflict that is destructive. We will help you build the type of relationships with key members of your team where conflict becomes part of your strategic competitive advantage.

Learning to manage conflict well is crucial to your career development. For many executives conflict becomes the glass ceiling barrier to their success. At Transpectives we will coach you through the difficult relationships where conflict has the risk potential of derailing your career plans. We specialize in resolving conflict in the workplace with you and your employees.

Our extensive experience in executive coaching will enable you to make managing conflict well, a key leadership competency. Transpectives provides conflict coaching services via the telephone or face-to-face to executives, and if appropriate their teams. Conflict training options include workshops, seminars and retreats.

In direct on-site conflict facilitation, Transpectives works with teams to manage conflict well and optimize performance. Facilitation and training have an educational and experiential component. Transpectives works with the current relational tension you experience and assists you in making conflict work for you rather than against you.

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Managing Self in Conflict

How do you best manage yourself in times of intense emotions like anger, fear, guilt or hurt? These emotions can be so all consuming that we can feel out of control, don’t even fully understand them or are at a loss to know how to respond effectively. We often find ourselves acting in ways that hurt us rather than help us. Personal coaching can make the difference in helping you get the handle you need.

We coach you to see yourself in relationship. Working with you on a one to one basis, we help you determine your role in the interactions, what makes your role necessary and what the expedient course of action is. We will help you determine the best way to position yourself in the relationship system because we know that if you can be different, the system cannot remain the same. This is where you likely have more control than you know.

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Couples, Individual and Family Coaching

This is the area where the stakes are the highest and the conflict most intense. I hear people say frequently when they are recounting the story of a recent conflict, “I’m not like this with anyone else,” or “this isn’t who I am”. The truth is that it is who you are under the most trying of circumstances, but it’s not who you want to be. Family members manage to hit every button. Get the coaching that will help you restore intimacy and commitment where it matters most.

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Life Transitions / Vocational Decisions

Our careers consist of a series of decisions that over time set a pattern of success or failure. Long term success is best achieved when these decisions are made from both a strategic and lifestyle perspective. Whether you are choosing where to focus your studies, mapping out your second career or leaving a career for retirement, through focused discussion and state of the art psychometric measures, we will help make the best decisions possible.

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Retirement

Retirement poses particular and significant challenges. It is one of those natural and opportune transitions which begs you to step back and take stock of your life, to assess and gain perspective. It is one of those natural milestones where you get to make a conscious shift. It is an opportune transition where you can be both deliberate and whimsical in your decision making. It is a significant juncture in your life, and coaching can help you work through the important questions. What do you want your focus to be now? Are there interests that have lain dormant that you now want to pursue? What gives you great joy? What do you do well and what do you want your contribution to be? What do you want your legacy to be? With increased time at your disposal, it will impact your most significant relationship with your partner. It takes some finesse to find a balance between optimal together and separate time now that your routines have been altered. How will each of you adapt to this new season of life? Coaching can help you find and experience the extraordinary richness of this new life shift.

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Coaching Method

Find the method that fits for you.

  • Telephone Coaching through pre-arranged appointments.
  • In Person Coaching at our office in downtown Vancouver.
  • On-Site Coaching at your work place.
  • Coaching Combo where some coaching occurs “on-site” and some occurs via telephone
  • Work Teams Coaching through teleforums, video-conferencing or in person.

NOTE: All contract fees are to be paid at least 48 hours in advance of the first session. Payment is made by credit card through Paypal.

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Transpectives Consulting Inc.

Vancouver Office:

Transpectives Consulting Inc.
2300-1066 W. Hastings St.
Vancouver, BC V6E 3X
Canada

Delta Office:

Transpectives Consulting Inc.
#401 – 11861 88th Ave.
Delta, BC V4C 3C6
Canada

Toll Free Number
1-877-599-8777

Transpectives Life Coaching Summary: We offer professional life coaching services for individuals, couples, and families. Find personal life and conflict coaching from professional life coaches based in Vancouver, BC, Canada.